You can and should allow yourself to still love it! It's a brilliant show & informed much of my life. I wrote an article specifically on Whedon & Buffy in June for FanFare...many of our greatest innovators & creators in history were, in fact, terrible humans. Walt Disney was an antisemite who believed in Eugenics, but Disney cartoons & Disney World still positively impacted my world. My point is, do what's best for you & don't let jerkfaces dictate what art you consume ❤❤