Soooo good, Jessica. Thank you. I love your perspective and insight here! The generalized, saccharine, blanketed “dude, bro" self-helpers make me feel infuriated. And often, they do more harm than good to people desperate for answers. That’s not to say self-help has never, well, helped but I think with its cultural saturation, its help has diminished. I love the idea of a self-help & social justice marriage too